Adding a relay has absolutely nothing to do with voltage, only amperage. If you were to change the voltage you would be adding or removing a resistor.
The Hella HID is a 35W lamp - which means it draws about 2-3 Amps when lit. There is an initial surge of about 15 Amps for less than a second to kick it off, but then it rapidly tapers off to the 2-3 Amps. the ballast can handle anything between 10-16 volts or continouse or fluctuating power no problem.
Halogen (regular bulbs at 55 watts (@12volts) about 4-5 amps when lit. No initial surge but the amperage is still higher than HID.
Halogen (regular bulbs at 60 watts (@ 12 volts) about 5-6 amps when lit. No initial surge but the amps are higher yet.
Halogen (Aftermarket at 90 watts (@ 12 volts) about 7-8 amps when lit. No initial surge but the amps are getting even higher.
Halogen (aftermarket at 100 watts (@ 12 volts) about 8-9 amps when lit. No initial surge but the amps are really high and are starting to weaken the plastic and wiring that your bulb is being held and powered by.
When you add a relay you are bypassing your factory wiring and using the factory wiring as a switch to activate the relay which will allow direct voltage and amperage to your lighting system (or whatever you have connected to your relay). I looked at the factory wiring and determined that the factory wiring was more than sufficient to hande the small burst of amperage at the beggining of the ballast start up and was not a problem at all.
I don't know if this changes at all through the contours life, but my 'tour has 14 gauge headlight wires.
"Wiring quick guide"
http://www.rallylights.com/useful_info/sensible_wiring.htm
It doesn't matter how many volts you have running through the wires, (hell, you could have 100,000 volts)(not rerecommended btw) as long as you don't have more than the rated amperage going through, you arn't going to burn out your wires and cause a fire. Even with 16 gauge wires you could have 15 amps going through for a short time. It may heat your wires up (and eventually burn them) but if the amperage gets below 7 amps your wires will go back to normal and everything will be fine again.
Think of this for a second. If Ford put a 10amp fuse on a wire that could only handle 7 amps, would that be safe for you to use? But if they put a 10amp fuse on a 15 amp wire, and all you have to do is replace the fuse, this protects the wire, and is in a specified saftey margin. All I've done was remove the safety margin. If I could put a 12 amp fuse in there I would, this would give me a 3 amp saftey margin. However since I can't find a 12 amp fuse. I'll just run with a 15. But still perfectly safe because the wires can handle it.