Your car was totalled due to the negligence of another. Now I don't know anything about Michigan law, but you should be able to sue the other guy (NOT his insurance company) for all damage directly and indirectly caused by his negligence.
No-fault law has nothing to do with this. Insurance law has nothing to do with this, other than when you sue the guy, his insurance company (if he has one) will provide him with a lawyer and a defense and will pay you if you can prove he was at fault.
And as far as having the other driver pay for your attorney, that would be great if you lived in England. In America, except for extremely limited cases, everyone pays for his or her own attorney.
Call around, speak to a few attorneys and if you can't afford one, sue the guy yourself in small claims court or whatever the equivalent is in Michigan.