Today I pulled the PS pump the 4th time. Had new/reman from Autozone: leaking. Had used/working elbow: leaking. Picked up teflon seals from ford dealer: leaking. After pulling today, I put a compressed air hose with a rubber cone on the high pressure side of the pump, sealed the low pressure side with my thumb. Carefully applied pressure, and saw PS fluid coming out on the elbow between the nut and the elbow tube (not the threads against which the teflon seal works). Obviously, the conical part is not sealing against the pump; could be the elbow or the pump.
As a last try, put high temp gasket maker on the conical part (and on the threads for good measure, since I was not willing to go through the heating up required for the teflon seals to fit over the thread).
Put it back in. First 10 min of running shows no leaks. If it holds: fine. If not, I will bring pump get to Autozone and get another one, and will spring for the $55 the stealership is charging for a new elbow (and new seals).