Just as BrApple said it's behind the glove box, but the easiest way to get to that area to see if you have it is from underneath. You'll have to take off the right side kick panel to get easy access to see in there, but it should be right where the above picture shows. Then as far as reaching it to do the programming I found that going through the glove box was easier (once I found out where the plug was that is). To do that just kinda squeeze the sides of the glove box in and it'll allow it to slide out and drop down out of the way. Then just reach back in and find the plug and then wiggle it out far enough to get the jumper wire in there. It literally takes less than 30 sec. once you have it ready to go, but it can be a pain in the butt to get to the connector sometimes.
