She is doing ok, her hands are alot better. They are holding off treatment with some of the medication because it lowers the white-blood cells making it hard to defend flu.
I admit I might of over reacted, but still she has growth in her lungs (smokeing) and the joint damage in her hands (lupus) We have to go friday to find out about the growth in her lungs.
Alot of its depressing so I didn't want to keep posting about it bring other people down. A good friend of mine wife has lupus also effecting her brain it sucks when your told you have about 20years left.
It means alot to me ex-meantour thankyou. Thankyou all of you, I can't wait to meet up with everyone again.