i hate the stupid classification of emo. look back at all your favorite bands, how many of them sing about emotions to even slightly up-beat music? they're a rock group just the same as aerosmith, with a lot of different kinds of songs. led, pearl, def, kiss... how many had a few songs about a girl, a broken heart, how much they loved someone, etc.?
the emo classification is just something that came around because all these high-and-mighties didn't want to be listening to the same music as the kids in high school wearing the makeup or the guaged ear lobes or whatever else, so they called it somethign else, started trash talking it, throwing it on every band those supposedly depressed and lonely souls listen to. it's stupid...
and for the record, incubus has been around since before "emo" came about...