My thoughts and prayers to you, Mike and his family.
My husband's grandmother passed away two days before my sister-in-laws b'day and three days before mine. The veiwing was on her b'day and the funeral on mine.
I was kinda weird when everyone sang happy birthday to us at the reception following the funeral.
My MIL made all the arrangements and then realized that the services would be on our b'days, she wanted to cancel but we wouldn't let her. B'day are over rated when you get older.