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Married women,,, girls night out every 6 months (not just going for a few drinks and coming home, but staying at a hotel  ...) She's got you good. Still probably best to stay married, she'll get even more from you if you divorce.
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Originally posted by Unregistered User:
Put clear plastic wrap over the toilet bowl. NOT on the ring. Make sure there are NO wrinkles in the plastic, either.
Sadly.. I have had something similar done to me before. At the drug test place, by the cute girls doing the testing 
They had wrapped some wide packaging tape loosely around the faucet of the sink, in hopes of pranking some of the guys who worked there. Obviously, they forgot about it; I did the test, and I wanted to wash my hands. I gladly did so and then felt the cold water splash the middle of my pants 
Nervous, I looked for the paper towels and *to my dismay* there were none! So now I have to walk out in front of a group of professional, sexy, women.. with a jar of piss and a wet circle on my pants 
Clearly it was a prank, I thought.. and they immediately apologized. We laughed that one off for a while!
ANYWAYS
Anything "Girls Nite Out" or two girls planning on talking alone together- not a good sign. In fact, never a good sign. My ex gf used the "talking times" with a friend of hers to explain how to rectify each time she had cheated on me..(seeking advice of her friend)  And I KNEW it too, but she would pull the damn guilt trip ad say I assume too much.
Take it from guys that have been burned. There -are- warning signs, and believe them when you see them. At least question them. Otherwise you'll never know and it'll affect your judgement forever..
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Originally posted by Pre98:
And I KNEW it too, but she would pull the damn guilt trip ad say I assume too much.
there is another good point. if you even mention the fact that this girls weekend is bothering you or making you a bit concerned, be prepared to have a good justification for your feeling that way. she/they/woman will throw out every reason/excuse possible to make you feel like YOU are the one being disrespectful. evil manipulative she-devils 
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My wife can go shopping with her g/f's to her hearts content - I won't bat an eye. But if she wants to go out drinking and partying without me, my question is "Why, I'm not fun enough anymore to party with? What is my presence holding you back from? You used to LOVE going dancing and drinking with me when we were dating!"
And I think that captures it in a nutshell. When a woman wants to party away from her significant other - it's because she is seeking the attemtion of another man to boost her ego....and more often than not, that new, cute, stranger might just be what she needs to make her feel sexy again (through the removal of her underwear).
Face it even us guys will look at a women, and even though we may have a great wife, g/f, etc. who puts out etc., we will fantasize what it would be like to bang this bit of strange - right? The only barrier is "will I put myself in a situation to make it happe?" i.e. leave the significant other at home so I can work on getting this other women's ankle around my ears. A good person won't put themselves in that situation obviously, nor will he seek it out.
The girl night out/boys night out is just an enabler.
I for one can say I don't feel the need to go out with just my buddies (no wife) to a bar. It's just not healthy for any relationship.
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Originally posted by Stazi:
to make her feel sexy again (through the removal of her underwear).
lmao
Originally posted by Stazi:
The girl night out/boys night out is just an enabler.
There, someone said it in one sentence.
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Originally posted by Stazi:
My wife can go shopping with her g/f's to her hearts content - I won't bat an eye. But if she wants to go out drinking and partying without me, my question is "Why, I'm not fun enough anymore to party with? What is my presence holding you back from? You used to LOVE going dancing and drinking with me when we were dating!"
And I think that captures it in a nutshell. When a woman wants to party away from her significant other - it's because she is seeking the attemtion of another man to boost her ego....and more often than not, that new, cute, stranger might just be what she needs to make her feel sexy again (through the removal of her underwear).
Face it even us guys will look at a women, and even though we may have a great wife, g/f, etc. who puts out etc., we will fantasize what it would be like to bang this bit of strange - right? The only barrier is "will I put myself in a situation to make it happe?" i.e. leave the significant other at home so I can work on getting this other women's ankle around my ears. A good person won't put themselves in that situation obviously, nor will he seek it out.
The girl night out/boys night out is just an enabler.
I for one can say I don't feel the need to go out with just my buddies (no wife) to a bar. It's just not healthy for any relationship.
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Just curious but when is the appropriate time to hang out with the guys? What if you just want to talk some issues out in an open forum? They are you friends for some reason, right? What's wrong with getting together to shoot the breeze? Or is the only appropriate place where there couldn't be the potential of single women walking around?
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I'll go out to a sports bar with buddies to watch a football game, but last time me and my buddies did that our wives went out shopping together, and then met up with us later for some drinks - it was fun. If I need to shoot the ish with my buddy I will go out and do something that allows me to talk to him - sitting in a dark bar listening to 95dB music blaring isn't exactly the right place for intelleectual discussion, is it?
What I am saying is that you cannot justify getting decked out and hitting a night on the town with buddies while leaving your wife or g/f at home. Can you honestly tell me that when guys go out and get on the turps and hit up the clubs, that they are talking about their mortgage, what kind of upgrades they're gonna be doing to the house, etc., or are they getting all chauvenistic and are ogling young hotties that are walking around wearing next to nothing and talking about how they would like to bend her over the hood of their Volvo? Come on. You cannot deny it.
And whether you want to admit it/accept it or not...women are the same. And when they drink, it comes out.
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Originally posted by Stazi:
women are the same. And when they drink, it comes out.
Or off.
And Stazi, just incase, I gave Piere's your picture, so they know now to let you in the door at Spring Zing. 
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It all comes down to trust. Simple as that. If you dont trust her look at yourself. Did you ever do something that you are not proud of? So you feel pay back is a B****. Do you worry about that at all? If you have no trust I dont think the relationship will last that long.
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Whatever you want to do dude. If you like to gamble then let her do what you want. If you want to go out with just the boys, then it tells me that you find yur significant other inadequate and need external stimuli. It's got nothing to do with trust, until the subject is brought up. If my wife feels that she needs to party without me - it tells me that I am not giving her something she needs and I need to fix that - not ignore it.
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