For the archives to help out others:
Replaced the fuse and everything worked great after. ABS light gone, blower working fine. No need at all to bring it to the dealer like the owners manual says.
Total Cost:
$2.99 + tax Estimated dealer cost: $75 labor + $4.00 fuse
This 60 amp fuse can be bought at AutoZone. Part number is
PAL160BP . It is a straight male terminal connection. NOT female terminal or bent male terminal.
Here is pictures to compare other types of connectors:
Install is easy. About
15 mins .
Disconnect battery terminals. Open the fuse panel and push in the clip which holds fuses 1-3 together. They will slide out in a group. I removed relay R4 and R5 otherwise no way to fit tools in there to loosen one of the screws. Loosen both screws, slide old fuse out, slide new one in. Reinstall screws and make sure the screw goes through the wires on both sides otherwise, no ABS or blower motor. Insert removed relays back in and connect battery.