Alright...so i found something interesting...
After my car died, i had it tucked away in the garage, and since i had all of these fog lamps issues, i figured i'd pull the fog lamp fuse just in case there was some sort of drain or whatever...so which fuse did i pull?...well look at this...
It says to pull fuse 5 right? And that's a pdf copy of the owners manual that i got from fords site...but my actual paper one that came with the car says the same thing.
So ever since the car died, the fuse from spot 5 has been pulled.
Now fast forward to tonight...i'm searching through posts to see what info i can find, i log onto autozone's repair manual thing to see if i can find info...and i'm looking through the service cd at the same time to see what i can find out...and i notice something...
See where it has fuse 5 at the top there (says F5)... 15 amps at the battery junction box...trace the wire down...see connector 1885a...that's the 3 wire connector on the alternator!
So anyway...i plugged a fuse into spot 5 fired the b!tch up and sure enough...voltage at 14.4X
I'm so happy...the fog lamps still dont work, but i can deal with that later i guess ...as long as the car is driveable, that's good progress.
Thanks to all the guys that gave me a shove in the right direction!