Why the he!! not - doesn't offend me or make my marriage mean anything less.
If it makes your marriage feel less special or not as good, you need to look into your issues rather than this. If 2 people want to marry and spend the rest of their lives loving and caring for each other amen to that.
Heck, heterosexuals don't get it right 50% of the time either, so what about this makes it less of an institution.
Good for Mass. recognizing that every person should have the same rights.