Originally posted by sleepie1084:
yeah, i told her therapist that she lit it up in front of me, and he just told me, "She wanted you leave". So I mean, even by that point, she was already high on the stuff, so she obviously wasn't her. And it hurts b/c she's told me before, "When someone gets on it, its not them. They'll do stuff on it that they would never do sober"



In my opinion she did this because she doesn't respect you and what you are trying to do for her. Do you think that she would have lit up in front of her mother? She is choosing the drug over you and her respect for you will only decrease if you continue to support her. Do you actually imagine this woman raising your kids and growing old with you? She has a chaotic past, a chaotic present, and will have a chaotic future. She's not a confused 16 year old, she's an adult. You sound like a very nice person who deserves a partner as good as youself.

God doesn't always make things better, sometimes he just gives you the strength to accept reality. Listen to the wise people here, she's already moved on and will only use you as long as you let her.

Dueling Duratecs '95 SE V6 MTX 0 Mods '04 Mazda6 S Wagon '03 Kawasaki Z1000 But thus do I counsel you, my friends: distrust all in whom the impulse to punish is powerful! Friedrich Nietzsche