many consider me to be the conservative, stubborn "manly men don't ...." type. with that said: 1)using lotion is not a problem, 2) smelling good is recommended, 3)a man should no more use a woman's lotion than use her secret deoderant. ask any woman who knows what she wants whether she wants her man to smell like a man or like her girlfriend and i guarantee you she would prefer a clean smelling, well groomed (usually) man.

00 black/tan svt, #2052 of 2150, born 2/1/00 formerly known as my csvt "Nothing in the world is more dangerous than a sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity." -Martin Luther King, Jr.