Well... most colognes have a line of lotions which are actually meant to be worn in conjunction with the cologne.
The lotion does not smell exactly like the cologne. The types of product complement each other with overtones and undertones to create a richer fragrance.
I personally don't feel it's worth the money, though. I prefer to pick my lotions separately.
Bath and Body Works has some nice citrusy and more masculine smelling lotions as well, and they work great. Shower gels are another good way to get a more subtle scent about you (though watch your chemistry, as with any scented product!)
I would not consider wanting to be like a woman a homosexual tendency. In fact, most crossdressers and transvestites are not gay.
