I'm not quite a neandrathal, but I do have some old fashioned values. I hold the door open for a woman. I try and curb profanity around them.
I'm also open minded. Women belong almost everywhere men do. At NASA, in race cars, Politics, and as a fighter jock.
I hope the justice system does not fail the victem. If she ws raped then the rapists should pay. If, however, she was offended by locker room banter, then tough. She asked to be a part of a mens team. I also think the coach is remarkably un professional. He should pay as well, for any crimes he's found guilty of and for being a sub par represenative of the university.
Here's the rub, I do not think women belong everywhere. Not on a mens college football team. Most definitely not at the Citadel or VMA. I don't want girls in the boy scouts and I don't want boys in the girl scouts. Some traditions are worthwhile.
This from a happily married man (whose wife is a successful carrer woman)and father of a daughter whom I hope becomes a racecar driving rocket scientist philanthropist.