brian, thanks again for all the help.
now, can you show me how exactly i would go about hooking the wires on my alarm up to the relays? like, which wires would go where. since i only see 2 door lock wires for the car and 2 door lock wires for the alarm, i am getting confused as to where the 3rd wire comes into play. (work sucked today so my mind is a little tired right now. still want to get it done asap though.