yeah, it can be hooked up as a negative trigger system. I think i finally understand it.
so basically, i am going to run my 2 lock/unlock wires from the ALARM to pins 85 and 86. (outside pins on each relay). then i am going to run the inside 85,86 pins and 87 pins to a 12v power source.
hmm but the "positive lock wire and positive unlock wire" are what are giving me trouble. These are going to be the 2 factory unlock/lock wires mentioned in the keyless entry how-to right? if so, i am basically going to T them right? cut it in half, splice the 2 ends together with a butt connector and then run a wire from the other end of the butt connector to pins 30 on the relays. does this sound right? if I do this, will I be able to just lock my doors manually (with the switch) without setting the alarm? let me know man. and again, thanks for all the help.