Ok, I've done searches and looked over the entire board. I have a manual transmission...don't know if that makes a difference.
First, the teardrop shaped opening has to cables going through it. A 1" diameter one in the wide part, and a .5" one towards the top. I removed the foam around the cables and saw that there is no room to get an opening, since there is a plastic flange or border around the cables. Does anyone know what I am talking about?
Second, I'm going to look at going through the wiper grill. It seems the wipers have to come off to get the grill off. I removed the nut that holds the wiper on, but can't seem to get the wiper to come off. Do you just pull straight up? I couldn't do it by hand, but thought about takeing pliers and trying it. Any thoughts?
I'll also try the grommit behind the steering column tonight. Should I be able to see the opening from the engine side, or do I need to remove the carpet and insulation to see the opening from the passenger compartment.
Thanks everyone for your help. I was able to replace the door speakers myself (only broke 1 sail panel trying to get that screw cap off though). Once I get that power wire through, I can install the subwoofer myself. And eventually I can replace the HU. Even though I have a double engineering degreee, I feel so stupid that this stuff is not as easy as it should be. I really appreciate a place like this where people are willing to help.