the torques you have right. if you need a picture of where to put the hi temp sealant go to
www.autozone.com then their repair info section, then repair guides, then select the year of your car and all that, then to engine and engine overhaul, and then oil pan, down near the bottom of the page are some pictures that show the tightening sequence and where you need to put the sealant at also shows the loosening sequence
