Man, I will pray for you. I was just married 6 months ago and I trust my wife 100% and I don't know what I would do if she were to betray that trust. I don't ever check up on her and all financial matters I know about (unless she has a hidden bank account or credit cards). I'm not controlling, but I think if she were ever to betray me I would have to leave, because I don't think I could ever trust her again and it would be too hard to try to do so (I would probably turn into a control freak, I could see that happening). Hopefully, we won't have kids for another 6-7 years, but I see how that could severly complicate things. I think you are being the bigger man in this situation, and I don't know if I would make the same decision as you (and since I'm not in your situation I can't judge your choice) but I would say you are doing exactly what you should do (especially since you still love her and want to be with her). Good luck, I'll be praying.
