Originally posted by BOFH:
Jato,

I don't blame myself, I totally hold her accountable for her decisions. I agree with you 100% it is her decision and she has to deal with the consequences.

But I must also face the fact that my inattention was a contributing factor.

That is a far cry from blaming myself, more like an after action review. A mistake will never make again.

TB


You are right. I think you are in a pretty good place right now. I like the fact that you are willing to take some responsibility for your actions and admit that it may have contributed to the problem. I hope you can work it out with her because I get the feeling that her needs were not being met in the marrage. If you can come to terms with what happened and you realize that you really care for her and she believes that you have changed then there is hope. Best of luck buddy!

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