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Am I the only one thinking Tony's actions were an excuse for her to get out of the marraige and be with this other guy? That is so awesome you found all that evidence on the computer just in case this goes to court among other reasons. Just my opinion. Good luck buddy hang in there. Any good looking nurses in the hospital? 
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I thought she had found someone else. Women just don't walk out if there is no one else involved. Are you angry at her for lying to you and making it seem like it was your fault?
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Todras,
No hottie nurses, but I stayed up until 1:30AM talking to one of them on Monday night. (Platonic, so don't get all excited.)
I've been advised by my counsellor and pastor both to not get entangled with other women, for obvious reasons. So we made sure that the door to my room was open when I was talking to the nurse.
I'm pretty sure all the stress is on her right now (my wife)
Like I said, I'm not calling her. However, seems the OM doesn't have the Ballz to call me. Here I am with only one (after the testicular cancer) and I'm more of a man than he could ever hope to be.
TB
"Seems like our society is more interested in turning each successive generation into cookie-cutter wankers than anything else." -- Jato 8/24/2004
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Originally posted by 7999:
I thought she had found someone else. Women just don't walk out if there is no one else involved. Are you angry at her for lying to you and making it seem like it was your fault?
I'm not angry, but when she tries to throw things in my face, when she tries to blame me for the heat she gets from her parents about this. (Yes, I told her parents what I knew) I tell her that the heat she faces is TOTALLY because of a decision that she made, and only a decision by her will take her out of that heated situation.
She is trying very hard right now to blame others, especially me, and she is finding that I will not take the blame.
I did tell her I am still willing to work on the relationship, but I will not take any blame for the affair or any of the fallout she experiences right now.
So no, I don't feel any anger, I was done being angry a couple of months ago. I feel relief.
TB
"Seems like our society is more interested in turning each successive generation into cookie-cutter wankers than anything else." -- Jato 8/24/2004
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Tony, the fact that you're still willing and trying to work this out proves what kind of person you are. Whatever happens, don't forget that.
-- 1999 SVT #220 --
In retrospect, it was all downhill from here. RIP, CEG.
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Originally posted by bigMoneyRacing:
Tony, the fact that you're still willing and trying to work this out proves what kind of person you are. Whatever happens, don't forget that.
That is really true.
I wish I could help you TB but i am going thru something VERY SIMILAR right now and sometimes (actually most of the times) i am pretty lost.
Like someone said: it takes time.
Only thing I can tell you is: try to rediscover your friends (i am saying that because I was devoting my entire life to my woman and I didn't have any 'friends-time') and try to keep your mind BUSY. I know, this is the most difficult. I am still working on that myself 
Anything is POSSIBLE... sowing the seeds of love"
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Just got off the phone with OM and he says he is backing off and will not see my wife anymore.
He did call me back, so kudos to him for that.
Now let's see if that is truly the case.
TB
"Seems like our society is more interested in turning each successive generation into cookie-cutter wankers than anything else." -- Jato 8/24/2004
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Originally posted by JVT:
I'm not quite sure what to say Tony, in fact, I REALLY don't know what to say other than good luck and I honestly hope that this will work out in your favor, whatever the conclusion may be...
My sentiments exactly. You are in my thoughts.
Bless our servicemen & women overseas.
L.Cpl Ian Malone, 1st Battalion Irish Guards, R.I.P.
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Originally posted by BOFH:
Just got off the phone with OM and he says he is backing off and will not see my wife anymore.
He did call me back, so kudos to him for that.
Now let's see if that is truly the case.
TB
That's pretty surprising that he had the testicular fortitude to call you...
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Originally posted by perry:
Originally posted by BOFH:
Just got off the phone with OM and he says he is backing off and will not see my wife anymore.
He did call me back, so kudos to him for that.
Now let's see if that is truly the case.
TB
That's pretty surprising that he had the testicular fortitude to call you...
She called me this morning too, pretty upset that I called him. She accuses me of being controlling, and yes I can be, but then she does the same sort of thing her.
I asked her to stop doing what she accuses me of and let him decide if he wants to call me or not.
Seems he decided to call me.
TB
"Seems like our society is more interested in turning each successive generation into cookie-cutter wankers than anything else." -- Jato 8/24/2004
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