Originally posted by 7999:
I thought she had found someone else. Women just don't walk out if there is no one else involved. Are you angry at her for lying to you and making it seem like it was your fault?



I'm not angry, but when she tries to throw things in my face, when she tries to blame me for the heat she gets from her parents about this. (Yes, I told her parents what I knew) I tell her that the heat she faces is TOTALLY because of a decision that she made, and only a decision by her will take her out of that heated situation.

She is trying very hard right now to blame others, especially me, and she is finding that I will not take the blame.

I did tell her I am still willing to work on the relationship, but I will not take any blame for the affair or any of the fallout she experiences right now.

So no, I don't feel any anger, I was done being angry a couple of months ago. I feel relief.

TB

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