Jato,

I don't blame myself, I totally hold her accountable for her decisions. I agree with you 100% it is her decision and she has to deal with the consequences.

But I must also face the fact that my inattention was a contributing factor.

That is a far cry from blaming myself, more like an after action review. A mistake will never make again.

TB

"Seems like our society is more interested in turning each successive generation into cookie-cutter wankers than anything else." -- Jato 8/24/2004