Perry et al.
Don't get me wrong, I will support my daughter, I simply will not support my wife's love nest. That is the point I'm making here.
I've already said there is no reason for my daughter to stay with her in a sole custody type arrangment. She is the one setting the bad example, and she should consider herself luck that I don't see sole custody for myself citing the affair as evidence that she puts herself before the kids needs.
Of course, she can avoid all of that heartache today by turning away from him, getting into counselling, etc and putting that much effort into our marriage.
The child is not a bargaining tool, I need to look out for who is setting the best example, the best role model for our child.
TB
