Originally posted by BOFH:
Well, now I know why. My particular type of control is knowing what's going on, having information. Not knowing was driving me batty.
Well I know now, and while I don't like it, I've already gone through the emotions, this information just explains what has already happened.
But, you really don't know. All you know is that she left you and she is seeing someone else. Why? "You weren't meeting her emotional needs." You thought you were, you understand you weren't, but beyond that...? All you have now is another piece of the puzzle it seems.
edit: Do you think that the grandparents will really let their grandkids go without? Do you really want the kids to go without? IMHO, not providing support for your kids is the wrong thing to do. The kids are the number one priority, you should do everything in your power to make sure they are well cared for. Don't use them as a bargaining piece in the argument between you and your wife..
Last edited by perry; 11/19/03 04:34 AM.
