However, I may not have made this clear in the last message, my inability to be romantic is still no excuse for her having an affair.
She is upset that I let her parents know what her real reason for moving out was, well that's tough. I wanted to be perfectly clear that I was not abandoning my kids, but I was going to send her no more money and that if she couldn't afford to care for the kids, she knows what she can do to rectify that situation.
I asked her parents to love her, but to demonstrate tough love and not condone her affair or offer her support when I withdrawl financial support.
TB
