Originally posted by perry:
Golly gee. I'm surprised you are so calm. I think I'd be livid and end up right back in the hospital with another hernia.



Perry and others,

I've been beating myself up a bit wondering what I did wrong, and I'm still somewhat to blame because it is pretty obvious I wasn't meeting some emotional need she had to be enticed by a 50 year old guy travelling around peddling military health care programs.

But I've been trying to figure out the why? If you look at my first posts on this, I said it all seemed so sudden, no indication of any problem and then whamo, she wants to leave

Well, now I know why. My particular type of control is knowing what's going on, having information. Not knowing was driving me batty.

Well I know now, and while I don't like it, I've already gone through the emotions, this information just explains what has already happened.

I still wonder if OM will call me back, or is he in contact with my wife right now saying this nutjob just called my wife and called me.

Yes, I outted them, but OMW already knew.

TB

"Seems like our society is more interested in turning each successive generation into cookie-cutter wankers than anything else." -- Jato 8/24/2004