i have been with my girl for almost 3 years now...and trust me the best times are the first 6 months. "The honeymoon" phase is great...enjoy it....there it loads of intimacy (ie sexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx) and no fights....but the bad part is u think u may know her but after the 6 months have passed you will find out alotttt more....Ever see Fools Rush In with Mattew Perry?
HE says somtin like :
"Whats the point in dating...its only creating a facade for the first 6 months and then realizing you dont like the person and then you spend the next 6 months trying to find out who they really are"
somtin like that..
oh ya and as for the guys...
u gotta balance, but women need more time so just chill with the guys once and a while..
gl..