I read your original thread Sun morning, and after some heavy thinking will offer the following, oh and by the way, just because I thought about it a lot does not necessarily make it better. My name is Aaron and I too suffer from analysis paralysis.
There is already a lot of sound advice here, but I will offer this as well:
What you have said here proves that you are a man and can step up when the time calls for it. I donā??t think that it is ever too late. You know the problems that you and your wife have shared and have found an answer for some and are prepared to deal with the rest. Now she has to see those answers, but it has to be on her own terms. This has been one of the hardest things for me to understand about Lindsey, my girlfriend of 5 years. I can tell her something and she will take note of it, but not until she see figures it out for herself and by herself does she truly believe it and take it to heart. This will take time and nothing you can do will change that. Patience will be your biggest help here.
It sounds like you are talking to family, friends and your church community about your situation. The fact that you can vocalize your feelings is a good start. Get it out there. It takes real courage to let everyone pick apart your guts when they are laid out in front of you.
You know that your family is important and you know where you faith is. Now you have to trust in them.
Tony, Lori, Chelsea and Camryn, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong.
