Originally posted by perry:
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Nor did I pick up on the signals.



Originally posted by BOFH:
there are things I want her to correct, but she has to come to that conclusion herself.



What we got here is a failure to communicate.



Perry,

I've told her in plain terms before what I want. Now isn't the time to dump on her. I did tell her I thought she was being selfish and she agreed, but she felt it was what she needed to do for now.

I cannot will her to change, she has to want to do that herself, much like I came to that conclusion about me.

Regardless of the final outcome, we will both be better people because of it, and God willing, we will be together too.

TB

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