Originally posted by BOFH:
Originally posted by cpurser:
So did she not say anything to you before this bomb? She should have talked to you about this before telling you she is leaving. Maybe she is wanting to get your attention.... looks like it worked.

It is very cool you are taking this to God. That is exactly what you need to do. Good luck.



I'm not the most compassionate or considerate man around. Nor did I pick up on the signals. Now that she tells me what I should have been looking for, it is very clear, but I didn't see them for what they were, nor did I try to find out. (Selfishness, I suppose.)

Thanks,

TB



I agree with perry, there is a definite lack of communication. You said, "Nor did I pick up on the signals." She should have done more than give you signals if things were bad enough for her to leave. She should have sat you down and explained to you what was bothering her and given you a chance to fix it.

Chad Purser 2002 Lexus IS300 5-speed manual formerly '98 Silver SVT