I hate to hear about your situation. I went through the same thing 3 years ago. I am a christian as well and at the time I didn't think it would happen to me, but my worst nightmare at the time happened. We got divorced with two kids involved in the marriage. I prayed, and gave it to God. And like a lot of people have said, the other party has to want the marriage as well. One thing I have learned is you can't make a woman do anything. I believe a lot of people gave you a lot of good advice and I say Amen to a lot of things said because I went through it. One guy said that it was probably another man, and one person jumped on him about it. I didn't think it was another man, but found out later that it was. Not to drag this out, but I think you are doing the right thing. It sounds like you have a good support group, you are talking, and most of all praying and requesting prayer. You are not placing blame and saying he said she said. Just stay close to God and try to keep your marriage together. And if it doesn't workout, keep close to God and never let him go. I believe a lot of people really feel for you and know what you are feeling because unfortunatly this happens far to much. It really really hurts because you really love your wife and you want everything to workout, but know one can soothe your heart like the Lord. If you stay close to God and do everything YOU can, everything will workout fine. You may not see it right away and the hurt and pain may not go away quickly, and then again maybe it will! One thing is for SURE, God takes care of his own. Remember this, never make hasty decisions. I will definitely pray for you!
