Tony, I'm truely sorry to hear about this. I hope everything works out for the better.
The only advuice I would be able to give you is to let things be as they are. She said that she feels that she needs to leave to see if she truely needs to be with you. Then that's exactly what you should do. Let her do what she feels is the correct action, no matter how wrong it feels to you. I firmly believe that part of loving something is letting it go. If something it meant to be, then it will happen. I know you want to have a say in the matter, but I think you should just let it be... if it doesn't happen, then it wasn't supposed to happen.
I hope everything works out for you, and stay strong.
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