Wow, Tony, I don't know what to say. Definitely remain in the counseling for your sake and hers; I know the professionals would have better and more definitive advice. Awesome that you are willing to recognize and change things around; hope she will realize that. Give her her own space that she needs in the next few days and weeks ... the getting together once in a while thing is an excellent idea. Hopefully though it won't have to happen at all, as there is at least one more week before things happen. Good luck.
