I would say get the book "If Only He Knew" by Gary Smalley. You will probably find out things you were doing wrong that even your wife may not have been aware of. It will help you understand your wife and teach you how to treat her better. And it does it from a Biblical perspective. I would also recommend it to all the men on the boards. Good luck

Contour--It will make a master mechanic out of you! 95 LX MTX Bolt-ons 95 Neon SOHC ATX 77 Dodge Powerwagon-more displacement than my Neon, Contour, and wife's Saturn---combined!