I will pray for you Tony, but don't worry too much as this is a very common situation these days.
My advice, based on experience, is counseling. Try and convince her to change her mind about this. However, again based on experience, this ONLY works when both parties are willing to listen and follow the advice of the counselor.
Also, the one key issue that each person must realize is that marriage is a constant compromise. Each must be willing to bend to the other and be accepting (to a point) of the other's ways and needs.
Children complicate the matter and they often suffer the worst. They may need some counseling also.
Perhaps your church offers some free counseling service? Otherwise the both of you should go and see a pro, your wife willing.
The best of Luck...let us know if we can be of further assistance.


Dan B. 96 SE 2.5 auto