Well man, I will definitely add you, your wife, and your situation to my prayers. As a small side note I have to say how cool it is to me to see a man being this open about all this AND about how he's turning to God for some help. Very Cool. That being said, docjames has some good advice I think about seeing each other a little bit even if she does decide to go for a while. beyond that, I have no real advice I guess except to take it to God in prayer yourself, truly seek His will on the matter. Maybe talk with your pastor about it as well, perhaps he/she will have some more good advice for you. I wish you all the best, and i'll be prayin for you all.