what i should have said was i dont need anyone dressing me up period. i was hit on a gay guy once and didnt realize it till afterwards. he was telling me about how his friend has a stereo shop and needed someone who could do installs. than he gave me his # so we could meet up on the weekend and he asked me for mine. something smelled fishy maybe the way he aproached me or something but it didnt feel right. i didnt call him that weekend and he never said a word to me. he was a cool dude though into cars motorcyles and car audio and all. i was always polite to him as im polite to all the other delivery guys that make deliveries. but after that weekend he didnt even want to make eye contact. i guess he felt embarased about it. but thats his business and i didnt tell anyone at work.
