Little update to this...
I have not had much luck with shops in my past. They always seem to screw something else up. That was one of the reasons I did not want to take my car to the exhaust shop to get that stud removed. Had to take it anyway, but stopped the guy before he cut the flange off!!!

I asked him what he was fixing to do and he replied with, "I am going to cut the flange off and weld a sleeve in place of it."

I got my car back from him, went home and adjusted on the flange with the busted stud until it did not leak.
Yep! There is a y-pipe in my future!
He did tell me about a clamp that you can buy that will support the flange, on a temp basis, in cases like mine. He told me it was about $25. So I figure that if I cannot get the pipe very soon I will do that just in case. I don't really like the idea of only having one stud holding the y-pipe to the bank 2 exhaust manifold.