Update:
Haven't heard from adjuster yet. I now have his name and number and have left a message. No rental car yet either.
It was clearly the van driver's fault. When he got out he apologized, said he wasn't paying attention, and he was the only one cited by the officer. Columbus has accident reports online, mine hasn't showed up yet. I am curious what it says because the officer never asked
me what happened. Maybe it was obvious?
My neck is still stiff, my wife is complaining that her neck, lower back, and abdomen are sore. She went to work today as usual, I stayed home to try and sort this mess out.
Called lawyer for guidance. He is only worried about the PI part of it. Right now I am more concerned about getting the car fixed or totaled, and having all medical bills that were the result of this accident paid for(and any future bills related to this accident). I wish this had never happened, but I am glad we are OK. Again, than you for all the kind words and advice.
I have ruled out the Escape at this time because of all the plastic trim. Yuk!