I never know what to say about kids. I work in downtown Springfield so I know a shitload of chicks who are younger than me that have them. Most of them say "no regrets" though. It does help to plan it out though and be ready for it.
Congrats on the three years man! You DO NOT want any suggestions from me on leather items.
It's a sick world and I'm a happy guy lol. Oh cut the BS, I'm just sick!!