Originally posted by golof:
i just really want to find out if she has moved on yet or not..i think that would really make it easy for me,




No you don't and no it won't.

If you find out that she has moved on with someone else, you know that it's gonna be some tough [censored] to deal with. Trust me, I'm doing it right now. I asked the question that I didn't want the answer to and I got the answer that I didn't want. Now I'm having to deal. If she hasn't moved on, you'll still want to know in a week or month, etc... and then it is just prolonging dealing with the whole "she's over me, damn" issue.


After thinking about my side, do you really think that it will be easy for you?

Hope this can help.

Chicken Shift