thanks for replying...she doesnt trust me...at all...its a whole age factor..and i lied a couple times...but its not like i'd ever cheat on her or anything along those lines...and sometimes it seems so easy to just move on and find another girl and i would if i ever had the chances but its like i try and avoid those opportunities...i just really want to find out if she has moved on yet or not..i think that would really make it easy for me, but like i said before i really do love this girl and i dont want to throw that away and i dont know if she wants to because she has this complete wrong picture of me which might be ruining my chances...this sucks