ok i usually dont do this but i was reading this forum and saw that alot of you give some pretty good advice...so im gonna try for it...dont be an ass.
ok so i was with this girl for a year and 4 months...the relationship ended at the end of april..after that it was on and off talking and we tried the friends with benefits thing a couple times but of course that didnt work...now its at the point where we cant talk to each other without yelling. to give you some background we had a pretty fiery relationship..alot of fighting and alot of trust issues..but i cant help but love this girl and i cant help but want to try and atleast just be her friend...i know it probably wouldnt work if we were to get back together and i dont know if i want that and from what i see she doesnt want it either..its been like 3 or 4 weeks since we've spoke and i just want my friend back and i want to show her i've changed my ways..i tried calling but of course she didnt pick up (she likes to ignore she's always done it so i dont know how to take it just yet..) i just want to know what you all think...should i just give up? or should i just show up to her door one day with flowers? i dont want to come across as pathetic because i dont really know how girls work im just really more confused than anything..if this doesnt make sense ask questions..thanks for your help
