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Originally posted by Fat Mike:
You just need to talk to her person, and just flat out tell her everything you have told us. Just being open with her and honest. Don't hide anything. Once again, good luck.
i agree
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are you still in a wierd situation man / .?
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na the other guy who made the first post , I like to poke my nose in these type of situations .. 
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How old are you dude? And her?
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If you never fall in love, you never get hurt.
And if you're in high school and you think you've found true love, then you're a [censored]. No offense.
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Originally posted by golof:
i just really want to find out if she has moved on yet or not..i think that would really make it easy for me,
No you don't and no it won't.
If you find out that she has moved on with someone else, you know that it's gonna be some tough [censored] to deal with. Trust me, I'm doing it right now. I asked the question that I didn't want the answer to and I got the answer that I didn't want. Now I'm having to deal. If she hasn't moved on, you'll still want to know in a week or month, etc... and then it is just prolonging dealing with the whole "she's over me, damn" issue.
After thinking about my side, do you really think that it will be easy for you?
Hope this can help. 
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Originally posted by solefood21:
Originally posted by golof:
i just really want to find out if she has moved on yet or not..i think that would really make it easy for me,
No you don't and no it won't.
If you find out that she has moved on with someone else, you know that it's gonna be some tough [censored] to deal with. Trust me, I'm doing it right now. I asked the question that I didn't want the answer to and I got the answer that I didn't want. Now I'm having to deal. If she hasn't moved on, you'll still want to know in a week or month, etc... and then it is just prolonging dealing with the whole "she's over me, damn" issue.
After thinking about my side, do you really think that it will be easy for you?
Hope this can help.
Exactly. When I found out that this girl I was talking about before started dating my friend, I was hurt badly. I was hurt even more when she said that if I would have talked to her more even a month ago, she would have gone out with me again.
You just gotta assume that everything happens for a reason.
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Best way to think is to get on a plane and take a 9 hour flight to europe all by yourself ....youll have a LOT to think about. 
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Yeah, what works for me is to just hop in my car, put all the windows down, blast some of my favorite CDs, light up a cigarette, and go for a drive. Really clears your mind.
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