I can speak on how or why someone is gay. All I can speak on are the actions. If you don't believe you have a choice as to whether you want to act on your actraction for someone else then that's you.
Think about what you just said. "Weather you want to act on your attraction for someone else then that's you." You're treating every single gay man or woman as though they are straight, and have chosen infidelity with someone of a different sex. WHY is that always the assumption with gay people?! When you were single, you saw attractive women, right? Some you may even have felt **gasp.. it's a sin!** lust for. Assuming you get married, you'll have to have acted on that attraction at least once, right?
What is wrong with two people loving each other, regardless of what reproductive organs they have? Why does it matter at all?!?!?
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