Whoa I misread the part about back support...please ignore my previous rant. Maybe there was a good reason he didn't pay before like he was unemployed? If not then he deserves little respect for not helping with his own child. And after re reading the first post...if he still owes "back support" then he should keep paying her the $85 a month until he is caught up on it THEN maybe sit down and talk about cutting if down if the kid is still living with him. Of course its really easy for me (or anyone else) to pass judgement here because we don't know these people or all of the facts.