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to be totally honest.. this could go either ways.. however..

if your sister has the child a majority of the times.. depending on what those bills are, she is still entitled to the money. Those "bills" could be insurance.. she could be putting the money away so that when she does have the child, she is not so dependent on "that months check".. especially since you said yourself he owed back child support. If he didn't pay before, who is to say he will not do that again. Leaving her in turmoil because she now doesn't have enough. You have to remember.. he wasn't paying what he should have been.. which may have put her behind on bills because instead of the phone bill this month, it went into her childs mouth.. Now he is paying her.. and she is able to catch up.

Secondly.. I disrespect your sisters Ex even more since he does owe back child support. Meaning, he didn't pay for a while.. is this not his kid? Divorced or not, full custody or not.. he has a duty as a father to support that child, and at one time, he obviously refused to.

If he owes back support, then he shouldn't be griping about paying her anything. She has the kids most of the time, he hasn't paid in the past.. he needs to start paying.

If he didn't owe her back payments.. my view would be pretty different.. slap em both upside the head and tell them to get their act together..