Stop F-ing feeling sorry for her and guilty!! She did this to herself! You need to do what's best for you and move on. You both need tough love, you from us and her from you. Right now she should be nothing more than the mother of your child!!! That's it. You have to look out for yourself no matter how miserable she or you may be, AGAIN SHE DID THIS TO HERSELF!!!!! I would not going on anything resembling a date for at least three months!!!! She has to figure out what she wants without you around. You feelings of simpathy are going to make you her crutch until she gets herself together, this has two negative affects. You get hurt by being played with and she takes longer to figure things out!!!!
Sorry but, Be a man and prepare to face the world without her!!! Maybe she is just efed up right now but you are the one being toyed with!!!
You are no different than a battered wife except she is mentally abusing as opposed to physical! Granted they are on different levels, but its the same basic concept!
-Andy
